October 22, 2024
This is only the beginning of a story unfolding in my life. I doubt I will share more of that unfolding. This is the essence of it. The heart of it.
Many of us are sending prayers of Light and hope into this election. Prayers that the Light, the wisdom voice of divine spirit, will touch the Light in others as we all navigate this election. And we know that after November 5th the call will be to turn our prayers and focus from the ballot box to binding our nation in an energy of healing and hope for unity. As I’ve been holding this knowing and wondering how healing and unity might happen…well, this story began. A clear, personal, and powerful answer to my wondering.
When he showed up at our door last week, I hardly recognized him. It’s been years since we’ve seen each other. Gary (not his real name), who’s work, craft and art is landscape construction, had years ago sculpted the meadows and our long winding driveway here at MossTerra. We have one mutual friend but beyond that we don’t live in the same social circles, and our political beliefs and life experiences are…well, let’s just say vastly different. His world is massive earth moving equipment. Mine is sacred sisterhoods and spiritual journeys in Ireland.
When I welcomed Gary into the house, the tears welled up. He was here to tell me his wife, Gina (not her real name) had died. We sat on the front porch for almost two hours as he wept and shared the story of her long illness and death and his many years of devoted caretaking. He was fragile and, in his words, very raw. I just held him in the energy of love and compassion. And listened.
It was in that listening a strong message landed for me. I was to offer to help him clear out some of Gina’s belongings. I was surprised because I hardly knew Gina and it was almost an out of body experience when I heard myself make that offer. Gary was so grateful. More tears flowed.
I went to the house this week to see the project ahead. But before we went into the house where I would see, among Gina’s antique furniture and flowery furnishings, three gun safes in the living room, Gary took me on a drive through his beautifully sculpted and park like forty acres. I say ‘his’ because Gina’s love was the house. His is the land.

As we wandered cross country in his red pick up truck, he stopped several times. ‘This is my cathedral’, he said, pointing out a magnificent grove of towering maple trees. ‘This is where I planned to put my chapel,’ he said, stopping in a stunning sixty foot circle surrounded by cedars. This is the essence of him he wanted me to experience. When I sang to the trees, he smiled. It was clear that our shared reverence for the natural world would be the tap root of our relationship. As we spend time together, this is the foundation for our conversation and sharing. This is the heart bridge across our differences.
As our nation navigates the future, may we find those heart bridges to each other.
Beannacht,
Judith